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A Year of Bio-Hacking

It’s gon’ get REAL around here.

 

I’ve sold myself to a new plantation, to raise up cash for a new family farmstead.

 

My health has improved DRAMATICALLY, eating loads of carbs and cutting back on protein/fats.  Low carbing darn near kilt me, and carbohydrates are bringing me back.

 

So, this year will be all about tinkering. Wim Hof, Ray Cronise, Mike Cernovich, Scott Adams *sorta*, Richard Nikoley and others are inspiring me to get out and into the dirt this year.

Imma gonna chronicle it all here.

 

It’s going to be good!

Winterizing, or how not to eat the bread of idleness

I don’t know if people realize, but this summer has been the coolest for the US if not the world since we started keeping records. Don’t believe the media hype about “climate change” and hot summers. Those folks are getting paid to lie to you about everything.
This winter is expected to be pretty brutal, and 2015 looks to be REALLY interesting.

My suspicion is the nice inter-glacial we’ve been in called the Holocene has ended and our world will be reverting shortly into its native, cooler state. That being said, our family is starting to prep for winter. Regardless of whether it is cold or mild, our goal is to remain comfortable. It’s possible to do these things with a bit of foresight and a little cash if you have a long enough lead time. We are incredibly rich and blessed, yet cash poor, so our family has to be careful about where we put that cash to use.

I am not trying to prep for the end of civilization, merely for the inevitable irritating occurrences that can be mitigated with a bit of planning. A good example: we went to the beach this last weekend, and took our travel drink kit that has a little propane burner, cups and thinks to make hot coffee, tea, etc. I’ve not looked at it for some time, at least since our flight from the park. One really important item was missing: A LIGHTER. We had nary a match between us either. And of course, we did not discover this until we had already dragged all of our equipment out on the beach, down from the long trail to the parking lot. *le sigh*. I really dislike that, and a bit of checking before we left might have avoided the nuisance.

In light of our preparation failure from the beach, I’ve tried to work out covering all the basics to stay comfortable for the winter. The plan is to keep our eye on the fact that there could be power outages after storms and other unexpected occurrences that are potentially disruptive. This last winter the area saw quite a bit of unexpected snow, up to a couple of feet that paralyzed the local infrastructure. We were used to that in the mountain area of California we left behind, but have grown soft living on the coast where very little changes 
So the basics: heat, water, food, in no particular order.

We are getting a cord of wood delivered this weekend. It’s going to cost around $175 a cord to have it delivered here. Daniel will stack it himself with a bit of *mostly useless* assistance from me and the dogs.
The plan is, Lord willing, to buy one a month until we get 3 or 4 to burn in the fireplace. We have a nice covered spot to put it in, but it’s at the far back end of the storage and will have to be humped up one truckload at a time *then up the stairs* to burn. The exercise possibilities are endless! The owners suggested getting a fireplace insert, but unless I find one that is really cheap I don’t think that will happen. At least I will get the chance to use some of my awesome cast iron cooking in the fireplace this winter 
We also have a small propane heater, and the house has central heating if we absolutely need it. Since we don’t pay the electrical bill we try to use as little as possible. We’ll be filling up the propane bottles one at a time over the next two months as well. The idea is to have multiple vectors of preparations, so if one fails there’s at least one backup.

We’ve been picking up bottled water and canned food, a bit at a time at the store to rebuild our stock. I’ll be canning up everything we don’t eat immediately from the garden, plus more that we’ll be gleaning from trees and bushes in the field next to the facility here. I have a large stock of canning items that I have collected over the years, but still need to add more Tattler reusable lids and jars. I still have not purchased a freezer, and may not get to it this year. I can find one for around $100 but I want to spend that money elsewhere this month, so I don’t think it will happen soon. If I do find some really good meat or vegetable buys, I will can or dehydrate them for now. The freezer is not a true necessity, but more like a giant luxury 

The water is on a well, but we won’t be able to get a hand pump for it due to the design and lack of information about the well itself. The old owners did not give the new owners any info in the sale, and I personally do not want to spend money on getting it inspected.
There is a lake across the street if we were really hard put to get water. We have some Berkey filters, and the plans to make a home made one using the filters and two plastic buckets put together if necessary. I have a back up water filtration system that is primitive but works: one micron cloth filters to run the water through that I picked up on eBay years ago, then boiling it to kill anything not filtered out. A one micron filter will actually come close to cleaning the water completely, but why take chances?
We have two sports bottles that filter water in our travel bags as well.
I wish we had not left our rain barrels behind, but we had no place to put them. I need to find at least two new ones. They seem to be a scarce and expensive commodity in the area. Again, multiple vectors for redundancy.

Thrift store shopping is our friend. We’ve been buying nice old quilts and other warm items in need of mending or cleaning from the thrift stores, and will keep looking for more. We also have been stocking up on yarn finds and sales to make some items both for ourselves and for gifts for friends.
I’ve been trying to sell off unneeded clothing items and oddities from around the house to raise cash to buy more suitable winter items. I’ve done a bit of trading too.
We are still on the lookout for good bags to use as containers for car kits for road emergencies. I have a giant bag that we can *but currently don’t* stick in the ‘Hoe that holds water, a change of clothes, first aid supplies and a drink kit including filtered water bottles but need to break it down to something more manageable that can stay in the vehicle.
We also need to finish collecting medical supplies. We have a bit, but they are currently scattered from Hell to breakfast in various spots around the house and garage.
Daniel hung up my big dry erase board so I could write a checklist to keep track of where we are in the process, along with a weekly Bible verse to memorize.
It’s more than a good start, methinks. If we can keep the momentum up we will be in a good position come winter to stay comfortable without expending a huge amount of effort. This in turn will give us time this winter to start working our way through the big stack of books, sermons, podcasts and assorted sundry items to get closer to our Creator as He has commanded us, so our “saved” time will be put to good use rather than eating the bread of idleness. (Pr 31:27)

What are you doing to get ready for winter?

We survived the move…

and are enjoying the new digs. Big change from RV land. A dear friend flew in this last week and we had a great time in fellowship and friendship. We also managed to squeeze in a Passover observance with other dear friends that live within a couple of hours. Such a sweet time, worshiping together.

My dear friend noticed we are having trouble adjusting to living like people again, rather than survivors of a rather wretched several years. It took her rearranging our *non-functional* furniture into an assemblage somewhat like a living space to get the idea through our heads that it is ok to spread out. Live a little, so to speak.

It’s hard. We will adjust, Lord willing.

Respecting him when you don’t necessarily want to…

Sunshine Mary has a really interesting post up about respecting your husband even if he is having trouble leading and/or following through. We don’t so much have a problem around here with my husband failing to lead, it’s more my keeping my mouth shut so he has the space to breathe, let alone lead. He is a great leader and is NOT forgetful, and I know this, but I still have difficulties with asking questions and making statements that will ultimately leave him feeling as if I am challenging his authority.

I am a work in progress, after all *gulp* and still unlearning feminism taught to me by my second wave mother, who still buys into the whole shebang. I would pray that after 25 years of marriage I can just learn to be QUIET and my naturally silent and thoughtful husband can and will do what he needs to for us to rebuild our lives.

I DO trust him, and for the most part my asking questions is NOT rebellion, just curiosity. But again, after so many years of running my mouth he does not trust ME or my motives. When I get to the point to where I am not reacting to things he is saying I know I will finally be in the right place. Or at least starting to get there! God give me grace and strength to submit fully and serve my husband with all my heart.

My big concern right now is supporting my niece, who is having a tremendously hard time with her husband. She is 27, married 5 years with one child. Her husband, brought up by a harridan feminist mother and a silent father, has fallen into drugs and poor choices. My niece had even worse parenting than I did, but is good, and smart, and a college graduate from a family that has only two: her and I. We actually went to community college together, and I made jokes to our classmates about changing her diapers, to her great chagrin. She is a loving Christian girl that is not fully invested in feminism or the female imperative, and there’s hope she can see her way all the way out.

I believe she wants to stay with him, but he is not leaving a clear path forward. He’s not willing to change at this point, and keeps denying the drug problem, even though it’s as plain as the nose on his face. I KNOW a large part of his problem is his meddlesome mother who owns their house although the small family is making the payments, and my niece by not relinquishing any space to lead. She is the “responsible” one in the family, and leads due to his “failing to lead”. I could show her this article, but I don’t know if she would listen, with the situation as serious as it is. She forced him out of the house after she caught him making “shake and bake” meth with a 2 liter bottle in their basement, to protect their daughter and home, and I don’t blame her. But he is not too far gone. He CAN go back to rehab, and back to church. Amongst many things, I told her that she needs help from the men in her life, such as their pastor and her father-in-law. She has no father to turn to, and her mother is a drug addict and a wreck. If he wants back in the home, and I think he does, the men can help convince him to go to rehab and to straighten out his act, in ways that she can’t, and probably shouldn’t.

How would you advise her?

Give your children a love for reading

I was talking about novels to a friend on FB the other day and left this as a comment. Give your children a love of books!

The only reason I got outside of our cultural matrix of public school indoctrination was a love of books. I would read good books, and those books would refer to other books, which I had to read to end up reading even more books. I read a lot of sci-fi pulp as a child and teen, and a lot of the good old sci fi refers to classical books in passing.

By reading books, from sci-fi pulp to the classics, I accidentally giving myself a much greater education than could be accounted for from my poverty-stricken circumstances of being a illegitimate latch-key child of a serial multiple marrier feminist. I learned nothing from public school except how to be patient and wait for the state to hand me stuff and to take being bullied as a normal part of life. Don’t send your children to public school. It’s tantamount to child abuse

Even strong independent women want to be possessed

Here’s the comment I left on the Dalrock site:

Sooo, I tell my husband about this bracelet that can only be unlocked by keyholder *spouse or whatever*
Him:: Heh, a mark of ownership, eh?
Me: Yeah. A sort of submission without admitting it, I suppose.
Him: Should be handcuffs. Modern women are nuts.
Me: LOL
Him: No, wait, it should be a collar. Probably a choke one.

Valentine’s Day 2014: non-entitled edition

What did we do around here for VDay? Nothing. We don’t do it. We don’t do faux holidays, let alone non Biblical ones.

I DID however give my sweet husband of 25 years something he dearly loved: an afternoon of golden silence and by-himself-free-of-my-incessant-chatter time, and he looked positively blissful afterwards.

Then we drank beer and he BBQ’d rib eye steaks. A fine day, indeed.

On “experiencing life first”

This.

“For some reason as he told me about it I couldn’t help but recall this post from Sunshine. My second thought was that she wasn’t referring to experiencing “life” at all, but what she really meant was experiencing multiple relationships.”

This is the single woman experience, in a nutshell. I can feel a bigger post a comin’ on, regarding growing up with a feminist mom, and how she missed out on just about everything breaking “free” of the patriarchy. She was a multiple marrier back in the 70’s, before it became REALLY fashionable to commit serial monogamy, and had three children by different men. This post will not slam her, as I don’t wish to, recognizing she is a child of her times as well as noting she truly believed that she was doing the right thing by living her life “her way”. She is a now delightful woman in her 70’s, and still defending her choices even though you can see a clear line from those choices to the results that she now finds dissatisfying, near the end of her life.

More later!